Maybe it’s connected to going through the menopause in your 40s. I’m also 50 now and have been through the menopause, so what’s happening to me? This is weird for me as I have never been the sort of person to take matters into my own hands before or do anything impulsive. Since then nothing has been mentioned about this by either of us – it’s as if it never happened – but I can’t stop thinking about him.